Le Mariage de Cecile & Oscar

Jour J -3

La première grande fête de notre union se déroulera le 07 07 07 en France...

Nous attendons plus de 150 invités !

C'est Grand et Nous avons hâte de partager des Rires, de l'Amour, des Histoires !

D'être Ensemble tout simplement...

l'amour nous rend si beau et joyeux...

nous souhaitons semer cette graine là dans les coeurs des gens autour de nous !

<3

Quelle génie notre soeur Nadège... elle a créé ces ensembles pour nous et ils sont tout simplement sublimes ! Un grand CLAP pour Nadège qui vient d'accoucher d'une petite fille à Yaoundé...

Toutes nos félicitations !!!

Il nous manquait que le soleil... car nos amis et famille d'Afrique étaient dans nos coeurs...

Love <3

Cecile & Oscar

Chers amis

Nous venons de nous appercevoir que nous n'avons jamais reçu de COMMENTAIRES alors que certains amis nous confirment en avoir écrit !

Nous nous excusons de cette mini complication...

Et nous vous proposons de préférer l'option de nous envoyer un email pour vos commentaires...

Amitiés

Cecile&Oscar

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Dear friends

We've had experienced some difficulties on comments !

Apparently some friends have done some however we never read them...

We would rather prefer to receive an email and be able to read the comments this way !

Love

Cecile&Oscar

La date de la grande fête en Europe est maintenant publique : c'est le 7 juillet !

Celle en Afrique n'est pas encore connue !

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The date of the main party in Europe is now booked !

It will take place on the 7th of July in France...

The party in Africa is not yet known... but as soon as we are aware of it we'll post it !

Cheers...

Comment vous remercier a la hauteur

de vos gestes, paroles, presences, et tous vos beaux cadeaux...

& par dessus tout votre Amour !

Surtout lors de ce jour si grand & unique pour nous 2...

Nous vous gardons precieusement dans nos <3

Merci

... and our goal is to spread it all around the world :))

Il est 14h30 et nous sommes aux anges... Voyez par vous même...

Mr et Mme Chiencheu Tamnou vous saluent et vous disent à tout bientôt !

c'est l'heure de la signature...

Quelle émotion !

Bahá'ís understand that the family is the basic unit of society. Unless this all-important building block is healthy and unified, society itself cannot be healthy and unified. Monogamous marriage stands at the foundation of family life.

Bahá'u'lláh said marriage is "a fortress for well-being and salvation." The Bahá'í writings further state that married couples should strive to become "loving companions and comrades and at one with each other for time and eternity..."

Bahá'ís view preparation for marriage as an essential element in ensuring a happy marriage. The process of preparation includes a requirement for parental approval of the choice of a spouse. This does not mean that Bahá'í marriages are arranged. Individuals propose marriage to the persons of their own choice. However, once the choice is made, the parents have both the right and the obligation to weigh carefully whether to give consent to, and thus guide, their offspring in one of life's most important decisions.

Bahá'ís believe that this requirement helps to preserve unity within the marriage--and within the extended family. As did previous Messengers of God, Bahá'u'lláh asks His followers to honor their parents. Obtaining parental permission for marriage reaffirms the importance of the bond between child and parent. It also helps to create a supportive network of parents in the often difficult first years of a marriage.

Simple vows and ceremony

Once parental permission is obtained, the marriage takes place, requiring only the simplest of ceremonies. In the presence of two witnesses designated by the local Bahá'í governing council, the couple recites the following verse: "We will all, verily, abide by the will of God." For Bahá'ís, that simple commitment to live by God's will implies all of the commitments associated with marriage, including the promises to love, honor, and cherish; to care for each other regardless of material health or wealth; and to share with and serve each other.

Beyond these simple requirements, Bahá'ís are free to design their own marriage celebration. Depending on personal tastes, family resources, and cultural traditions, Bahá'í ceremonies run the gamut from small to large, including all manner of music, dance, dress, food and festivity.

As in most religions, the marriage vow is considered sacred in the Bahá'í Faith. The partners are expected to be absolutely faithful to each other.

The Faith's emphasis on the equality of women and men, however, and its promotion of consultation as a tool for problem-solving mean that the roles of husband and wife within a Bahá'í marriage are not the traditional ones. Women are free to pursue careers that interest them; men are expected to share in household duties and child-rearing.

So-called "interracial marriage" is also encouraged in the Bahá'í teachings, which stress the essential oneness of the human race.

http://info.bahai.org/article-1-6-0-4.html